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24 Warning Signs of Adolescent Drug or Alcohol Addiction
24 Steps to Take if Your Adolescent is Using Drugs or Alcohol
24 Signs of Relapse
24 Points to Consider When Choosing a Drug Treatment Facility For an Adolescent
24 Warning Signs of Adolescent Drug or Alcohol Addiction
- Loss of interest in hobbies, sports or other favorite activities
- School grades have declined dramatically
- Difficult time concentrating on tasks
- Change in sleeping patterns, up all-night or sleeping all day
- Withdrawn, depressed, tired, careless, or manipulative
- Hostile, disrespectful, untruthful, and uncooperative
- Relationships with family members and friends has deteriorated
- Money is missing from the household
- An increase in borrowing money from family members and friends
- Physical health has declined, bloodshot eyes, bulging veins, runny nose
- Dramatic mood swings
- Missing prescription drugs, cold medicines, alcohol, aerosol containers in the home
- Increased secrecy about possessions or activities
- Personal hygiene has deteriorated
- Dramatic weight loss
- Finding drug paraphernalia hidden in the home, pipes, rolling papers, eye drops, butane lighters, soft drink containers made in to pipes, etc.
- Inhalant products, rags, computer duster, paint, nail polish, paper or plastic bags etc. hidden in the home
- Truancy and tardiness to school or a job
- Changes in fashion, hairstyle, use of breath mints, fascination with the drug culture
- Sudden change in friends, numerous secretive phone calls
- Use of room deodorant or incense in their room
- Physically abusive, aggressive, punching holes in walls, etc.
- Has anyone told you that your child is using drugs?
- Odd phone calls, sneaking out of the house, etc.
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24 Steps to Take if Your Adolescent is Using Drugs or Alcohol
- Have your adolescent evaluated by a professional drug counselor or treatment facility
- Immediately admit your child to a drug treatment program if it is recommended
- Educate yourself and your family about the disease of addiction
- Seek family counseling from a group or a professional specializing in addiction
- Consider attending Al-Anon or Al-A-Teen meetings
- Understand that addiction will lead to prison, institutions or death if not treated
- Understand that no one has any control over the addicted adolescent except the addict
- Do not give your adolescent cash or credit cards
- Recognize that addicted adolescents have a disease and do not reason the same way as non-addicted teens
- Do not make excuses for your adolescent’s behavior; let the natural consequences of their actions occur
- Do not feel guilty about your parenting skills, your child made the decision to abuse drugs
- Realize that emotional maturity in addicted adolescents stops from the time they begin their drug or alcohol use
- Set and communicate clear behavior standards for the adolescent to live by while living in your home, no fuzzy or gray areas
- Hold the addicted adolescent accountable for their actions
- Consider suspending their driving privileges until the teen achieves sobriety
- If the adolescent is facing legal problems, do not intervene, let the natural consequences occur
- Be wary of the addict’s skills at manipulating people and events
- Consider removing or securing all alcohol, narcotic prescription medication, cold medication, etc. from your home
- Realize that addiction is a life long disease that cannot be cured, but can be treated
- All family members should try to be of the same mind set when setting behavioral expectations for the teen, and when holding them accountable
- Realize that addiction is a family disease that has a negative impact on all members of the family
- The addicted adolescents recovery is his program, you should not try to work harder than the teen at that program
- Relapses are common, recovery is achieved one small step at a time
- Learn to live life with an addict one day at a time, and be grateful for the time you have together
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24 Signs of Relapse
- Apprehension by the addict about the ability to remain sober
- Denial about their uncertainty to remain sober
- Compulsive attempts to impose sobriety on others
- Noticeable defensiveness when discussing the challenges of remaining sober
- A return to former compulsive behavior
- Tendencies towards loneliness
- Developing tunnel vision about tasks or events while ignoring other important areas
- Minor depression, listlessness, oversleeping
- Loss of constructive planning, lack of attention to detail
- Idle daydreaming, feelings that nothing can be solved
- Wish to be happy without defining what is necessary to be content
- Periods of confusion even with simple tasks
- Irritation with family and friends, easily angered
- Irregular eating habits
- Irregular sleeping habits, insomnia
- Progressive loss of daily structure
- Periods of deep depression
- Irregular attendance at AA meetings, treatment and counseling sessions
- Open rejection of help, don’t care attitude
- Feelings of powerlessness, self pity, distorted judgment
- Thoughts of social drug and alcohol use being acceptable
- Conscious lying, denial and rationalization
- Discontinues all treatment, stops seeking support for addiction
- Loss of control, return to addictive behavior
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24 Points to Consider When Choosing a Drug Treatment Facility
For an Adolescent
- The facility should be certified by a national drug treatment organization
- How will the facility provide the tools and skills necessary for the adolescent to treat their addiction?
- The facility should accept health insurance plans
- Detox treatment and care should be available
- Does the facility provide education about the disease to all family members?
- Various levels of care and programs are available based on the patients needs
- Treats the disease as one that affects the entire family
- Specializes in the treatment of adolescent addicts
- How is the evaluation and assessment of potential patients handled?
- Is there a physician on staff who specializes in addiction?
- Are there after care programs available
- Is the facility willing to work with families on a payment program for services not covered by insurance?
- What rules are the patients and their families expected to follow?
- Is the location convenient to make attendance at programs more likely?
- Are there AA, NA, CA and Al-Anon meetings available on site?
- Is the facility clean and well maintained?
- If your adolescent is in an in-patient program, are tutors available to assist with missed schoolwork?
- Is there a parent support group or network available?
- Is patient and family confidentially respected and adhered to?
- Are there programs available to help keep adolescents connected to their recovery after treatment is finished?
- In patient programs should provide food service with menus formulated to help patients bodies recover
- Will the facility recommend programs at other treatment facilities if circumstances warrant?
- Does the facility provide counseling sessions with the family to plan for the recovery process?
- Is programming available to help siblings of the adolescent addict in their recovery?
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